Where Modern Intimacy Finds Its Language.

Lessons on love and desire from licensed couples therapist and certified sex therapist, Inez Cordoba. A course for couples navigating desire differences coming Winter 2025.

How Strong Are Your Relationship Skills- Really?

Answer 12 quick questions to uncover your relationship skill strengths today.

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Making Sense of Love, One Tangent at a Time.

Join the conversation! Earnest guidance and honest advice curated to answer your biggest relationship questions. Get the tools, language, and insights you need to feel close again.

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Gain Relationship Insights. Navigate Desire Discrepancy. Feel More Alive. 

Coming Winter 2025: The Being Alive Course

It’s like 6 months of relationship coaching. In one online relationship course. 

♥ Explore desire, conflict, communication & intimacy

♥ Built for every kind of couple

♥ Shame-free guidance for navigating desire discrepancy

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Your biggest relationship questions - answered.

♥ Anonymous submissions welcome

♥ Real, clinically-sound relationship advice

♥ Available on all major podcast platforms

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Relationships, Sexuality, and Desire

Instantly Downloadable Guides on Essential Topics. The adult sex education you’ve wished for.

♥ “Sexual Styles” Questionnaire

♥ Desire VS Libido

♥ Relationship Dynamics 

♥ Menopause and Intimacy and more…

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The Love, the Mess, and the Magic of Relationships.

This is a friendly corner of the internet providing you with therapeutically informed adult, sex education. The kind that’s grounded in research, backed by science, and shaped by 1000s of hours of real work with couples.

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Modern intimacy is in a quiet crisis with couples feeling increasingly disconnected and on different pages.

Ready to know what strengths you bring to your relationship and where you still have room to grow?

Take this brief quiz- designed by couples therapist, Inez Cordoba.

Find out- are you A Budding Heart, A Wave, or A Steady Spark? Of course, these are made up categories and the quiz isn’t diagnostic- but it’s certainly a playful way to start a conversation!

Relationship Quiz
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Let’s Start the Conversation You’ve Been Avoiding for Years.

Relationships are full of joy, chaos, and everything in between and Inez wants to help you make sense of it all. Start with the podcast, the course is coming soon enough!

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